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I got tagged by BalladPhoenix
Oooooooo~ I must say I'm honored and I thank you, showing my thanks I shall repay in kind to this interesting tag!

|•Five Ways to Win My Heart•|

1.) Be my best friend first.

You'll have me already if you're that. You've heard my obnoxious voice, my loud excitement, know what pushes my buttons or how my brain functions. We'll have similar interests that align where we can both freak out over, like the next Marvel movie or a new video game or maybe a book or an anime.

You'll know me like no one else does, you'll know funny stories and sad ones.

My family will know you and greet you
with smiles, for they know you make me grin brightly too. I will give my trust to you, something I rarely give. Because people I love have hurt me before, and I'm hesitant to give love to those that are not blood since even blood hurt me. But you'll know you have my care and love, you'll know once the day comes.

You will make me laugh without reservation which makes me move on to my second one.

2.) Laughter

We share all the funnies, you tell me stories filled with excitement and ridiculousness that I can't help but pause to think if that story is real or not. You'll hear my cackle, my chuckle, my snicker, my giggle, and my so very loud laughter. And I would want to hear yours too, I would see through what makes you tick or release an attempted controlled breath of laughter from your lips like you would know mine.

We will laugh about the most stupidest of things and make up our own inside jokes just for the two of us to know with a hidden glance across a table in a group of friends. For we both remember that one time so and so happened and how ridiculous it was, and our eyes will just be able to read each other's mirth that I gotta control my mouth before my smirk releases into a noise of glee.

My words are pretty, but that's because I love words which I shall move on to the next.

3.) Romance by Words

I love words. I'm an avid reader and author after all, although the latter gets difficult cause the right word never quite comes out right.

I love books, that have smooth bounds and covers with words just as soft and careful as they flow together ever so perfectly. And I love it if someone would give the same thing to me. My friends and family aren't pretty with words, Caribbean people are pretty blunt after all and certain poetry goes right over their heads, I'm usually the one who gives the inspiration and the pretty words for them.

I would love, truly would, if someone did the same to me.

Speak ever so softly about endings and beginnings and middles. About suns and moons. About the day with the pretty fluffy clouds and the dark but beautiful night with stars for eyes. Telling me so eloquently about beauty or just about the harshness of the world. Or maybe not even eloquently, perhaps with a stutter, a stop for breath from nervousness, a pause to form your words correctly, as long as your words make my heart stutter and hold my attention rapt, you got me.

4.) Philosophy and Morals and Beliefs

It'd be hard to be with someone who is the complete opposite of me in the black and white scale of morals. Or the opposite of my Lawful Neutral which I guess would be Chaotic Evil or something close to that.

I don't mind having different views politically or such, but morals? Beliefs? Ethics? That'd be hard to get used to and to fall in love with someone that at least isn't by my own line of Justice and what is right or wrong.

Your views of how to treat one's family and friends, how often they talk about them or rather if you don't or if you have children, do you even see them? Talk to them? Mention them to me at all or help them? All important, for I shall judge you on how you treat the people around you that you claim to care about, I will see and observe. And if I don't like how you treat your kind mother that always smiles or hearing you cause trouble for your supposed best friend because of your complaints of them nagging I'll see. It will be different if I see bad blood with family, but it can't be your whole family.

I'm really family oriented and it'd be weird to see someone who isn't at least with a few members despite a little sore subjects with them. Also weird if you don't get along with my friends at least civilly, very odd.

5.) Unafraid, Adventurous

I'm a normally reserved person, but I sometimes wish I wasn't so cautious or paranoid or scared. That I can just stop being the worry wart and the mother of my group of friends and just feel free and above everything.

I want someone to have me release a side of me that rarely comes out, a side of just pure excitement at the thought of unknown. Just to feel the thrill of adventure and mysteries and to just feel everything! But not for them to push me too much, for them to smile and wait in encouragement to brace my fears, telling me that they've done this before or my mind is just making up all the scenarios where everything can go wrong and I should calm down and take my time.

And if I don't go the first time with them, then they would just patiently ask me if I want to go again. By then I would, cause then my fears will calm and stop and I see your okay and alright and I would like to do it with them to make sure we'll both be okay.

I'd just want someone to reassure me but be my adventurous side of the relationship, for it to come out with you.

Well...this was fun~

Anyways, I'll just tag whoever really~

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