Day 7

|• Five Pet Peeves•|

1.) People Who Think They're Right When They're Clearly In The Wrong

Everybody has that one family member right? The one who tends to be obnoxious or tends to always make everything a debate when you were just making a light joke about something or other. Who always, ALWAYS, has to win every single debate no matter how crooked their thinking is or the amount of facts they've gotten wrong or just that they seem to always think that they're right, or at least trying to tell themselves that and never say that they're wrong.

I really, really, hate that. I got two people like that, sometimes a third person likes to do that sometimes in my family and it gets in my nerves just how idiotically prideful they can be. Or just thick headed as well as big headed.

Man, I just hate it! I hate it that even when I know I'm right, they don't seem to see that either and can't just give me a little 'Sorry, you're right' or 'I was wrong, sorry about that' it's just...UGH!!

There's some people out there that you just can't win against but man oh man, if I have fellow workers like that or a boss I might just die of frustration or get arrested for throttling their throat.

2.) People Who Sneeze, Cough, or just Sick and touch all my Stuff

I'm what some people call a germaphobe I guess, but it really depends. I have picked up food from the floor if it followed the Five Second Rule after all, but that's because I guess I chose to do that and it's in my control.

People who are sick and are near me, I don't have control over, and I guess that scares me a tinge.

I just...I've been around people who don't cover their sneeze and coughs and they're doing it NEAR ME AND IT GETS ON MY DESK AND AGSHAKKAHAH!!!

You're adults! Why aren't you covering your germs from getting everywhere, you just gotta put your arm over your mouth and nose and then everything's fine!

And then they're touching my stuff, one of my college roommates who was sick got on my bed one time and I was cringing each second she was there until she quickly left because she had to do something.

I remember being disgusted when I was kid too at seeing others snot or coughs without them covering it, who taught these kids? Why don't parents teach kids germ control?!

I really don't like it, if your sick, you can be near me but don't deliberately NOT cover your sneezes and coughs and don't touch my stuff without your hands being sanitized first.

...okay...that last part has proven I'm a germaphobe now that I wrote that but whatever! I just like to stay healthy!

(Don't get me started on people who chew with their mouth open too, so freakin disgusting!)

3.) Two-Faced People

I've never had a 'fake' friend or someone two-faced near me but I've observed people suffer from those people.

I found it scary where I noticed a group of people, supposedly 'friends' with each other and they were smiling as they gossiped loudly with each other about others and then when a person from their group would leave, the whole group would then start talking smack about THEM even though they're supposed to be 'friends'.

It baffled me and frightened me how easily these people would say cruel words about others with smiles on their faces and laughs. It also disgusted me.

How low people can be with each other.

I really don't like it. I really don't.

4.) Close-Minded People

I'm not just talking about people who can't understand the political party you're in doesn't immediately define you or how people can't respect other religions.

But other things like how people can't accept things and people aren't black and white but varied shades of gray. That certain actions of others aren't as malicious, or innocent, as it seems to be. That people are people, with very different masks upon their face.

Really, I just don't like people who can't accept certain things about the world or people or just choose to ignore them. So I guess this falls under ignorant as well.

If you guys want an example, people from fandoms like Marvel can't accept that Tony Stark is yes indeed arrogant, but it's to hide his sensitivities and is actually very caring and actually cares too much.

Or the fandom of Death Note where some think L's Justice is the true form of Justice or that he's just an innocent and quirky detective that has done no wrong when he's actually done very wrong acts himself in the show without blinking an eye.

Or the fact that some people from the One Piece fandom about the villains intentions, don't get that they are just 'evil', there are reasons why they act the way they do. Like Akainu and his reasons for treating pirates so lowly.

People seem to not get that there's no black and white, no good or bad, no hero or villain, everyone is shades of gray. Everyone. Wish people got that, and not simply accept monsters are monsters and are not human when the fact that they are such monsters is BECAUSE they're human. Because you can become like them too, guess people are scared of that.

I just wish people understood others in general...

5.) Manipulators

You know them. The ones who constantly say sorry to you for doing so and so but they keep on doing it anyways and have the nerve to look at with a smile and apologize again for you to accept or else you seem like the bad guy for accepting their apology.

The ones you come to for comfort but somehow you just feel worse then you already were, but you just put it off as if you were already feeling bad in the first place.

The ones who constantly smile at you, always seeming to always have a shoulder to cry on, the one who can't do wrong cause they just seem so nice, the one who always seems like they're right cause they exude the confidence of someone who IS right.

They know you, they know your good hearted nature and exploit if needed, using you if they have to. It's...no...I don't like it. I don't like them at all. I've been reading things about manipulation and certain things hit too close to home cause people tended to do a handful of those things and now I'm not sure what actions are innocent or not.

It's crazy how it's so hard to tell on whether a person is actually nice or is just using you.

I hate it.

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